BDSM Emblem

Many have seen the BDSM Emblem picture in the feature image of this entry. Many even know that it represents the BDSM creed and its three parts – Safe, Sane and Consensual. However, the BDSM Emblem was created with much more purpose and representation than that. Truth is, many spread and share the Emblem around the…

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Understanding Dominance | Patience

Often discussed or viewed is the submissive understanding. More specifically, a submissive’s understanding of submission, but what about understanding Dominance – a Dominant’s understanding? One of the greatest lessons, I as a Dominant, took to learning was my own understanding of Dominance. Specifically with relevance to due process and training – patience. Allow me to…

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4 Ways to Improve Dominance

It’s not uncommon for me to be approached by Dominants asking how they can improve Dominance. What are some tips, tricks, steps, advice… all sorts of questions. Likewise, naturally, I have as many, if not more submissives approach with their issues and what they find lacking in a Dominant. For today’s entry, I have chosen 4…

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Krista Monroe | Model of the Week

Krista Monroe is a leggy 5’9″ tall, tattooed and pierced 28-year-old model. She was destined to be in the ‘spotlight’ from a very young age where she began competing in beauty pageants at the age of 3. Naturally, as she matured, so did her desire for performing and putting smiles on the faces of others and…

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Violate | It’s Beautiful Notion

Recently, I have come to the conclusion that ‘violate’ is the most beautifully wonderful word in the English language. The notion it proposes, the desire it provokes and the lust it generates. Violate; To break through or pass by force or without right. To molest sexually. Coupled with one simple word, a submissive can invoke…

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The End of an Era | Instagram

To understand the end of an era, you must first understand where it began. Many of you may have found BDSMtalks through my Instagram account ‘b.d.s.m.life’ but, it all started over a year ago with a search – curiosity. I wanted to know, what does social media offer the lifestyle. I took to Instagram and…

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BDSM Terminology | Simplified

In this entry of BDSM basics, I am going to go over some of the common BDSM terminologies and provide a brief and simple description. With many the many facets and subcultures that tend to associate themselves with BDSM, it can become confusion for some. There are many acronyms, terms, and identities. An example of…

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Lanna B. | Model of the Week

Lanna B. is a 31-year-old woman who stands at just 5′ tall. When she’s not spending time with her son, she’s looking for an adventure. She’s someone who will try anything at least once and enjoys a good adrenaline rush! Lanna is also quite fond of tattoos and spending as much time on the beach as…

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Why I Value Submission

Some answers I simply don’t have. I know that when I am asked why I’m not whole or complete as a person without submission, I generally don’t have a clear answer as to why that is. I do however know why I value submission and perhaps, that is the answer. I imagine a trans or…

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Importance of Limits

As crazy as it is to believe, one of the most common and overlooked discussions between potential partners are limits; both soft and hard. This is a crucial detail in the process of determining the compatibility between individuals. There are so many sub-cultures, interests, and fetishes within BDSM culture that the possibilities are plentiful and…

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