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Aftercare | BDSM

Aftercare | BDSM | BDSMtalks

Easily, one of the topics I am most often asked about is aftercare. Why I have not yet chosen to discuss it before now, I am not entirely sure. To be honest, aftercare comes in many different forms and for each individual, it takes a different course of action. However, one thing I feel is…

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I Give Up | BDSM Dating

Dating in the twenty-first century isn’t easy, maybe it’s due to the ever growing populous of the world, or maybe it’s due to individuals being more aware. Whatever the reasoning, for many it simply isn’t always easy. Now, add the complexities and many facets of BDSM into your dating life and this in many cases,…

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Does Experience Matter? | BDSM FAQ

Something I encounter often is whether or not experience matters. Particularly in my case, does experience matter with relation to a submissive’s submission. However, the same could be asked about a Dominant and their experience with Domination. Today, I’m going to share my thoughts on the relevance of experience in relation to BDSM and D&s…

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Dominant Entitlement | Respect and Servitude

I have been inspired to write my first article in over a month and a half out of pure frustration, to be honest. There seems to be a common theme coming up within the BDSMtalks Community as of late and it pertains to Dominant entitlement. Apparently, there’s massive confusion among Dominants when approaching a submissive who…

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Submission (TV Series) | Review

The Submission (TV Series) is a 6 episode television series that was released and aired on Showtime this spring. It chronicles a woman (Ashley) who reads a 50 Shades like book called “Slave” and how this book leads to her desire for submission. Which ultimately, you guessed it, leads to her embarking on a journey…

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Fetlife Membership | Invite Only

Many of you I am sure, are unaware of the recent change Fetlife has made to its membership. Fet recently announced that Fetlife membership will be by invite only and the ability for new members to sign-up has been removed. This means the only way in which new individuals will be granted Fetlife membership is…

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A submissive’s Worth

Simply, the worth of a submissive I believe, is established through the needs of a Dominant and the submissive’s ability to fulfill those needs. Some aspects of a submissive’s worth can even be established almost immediately based on the needs of the Dominant and others, over a period of time. How one measures the worth…

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Why I Don’t Date Vanilla

I believe that in most cases when an individual identifies as a Dominant or a submissive and chooses to date someone who would be considered ‘vanilla’, they make this choice based upon an emotional decision and not one of logic. This is in part why I don’t date vanilla. I am a calculated man, one…

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FetLife’s Biggest Fail | The People

I’ve been meaning to cover this topic, FetLife’s Biggest Fail, for some time now. I have been reluctant to do so, as I feel I am no one to tell someone how or what they should do. However, some things need to be said and if you are sensitive and/or narrow-minded, I encourage you to…

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BDSM Protocols | Their Significance

There are many, upon many facets to BDSM relationships and exchanges. In my opinion, that’s part of what makes the lifestyle so euphoric; its complexity. BDSM Protocols are at the very top of the list. Protocols are described as; the official procedure or system of rules governing affairs. Rules and D&s? No way, right?! Protocols…

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